Common Behaviour Problems
Aggressive Problems
- Hitting
- Biting
- Throwing Objects
- Hurting Others
Antisocial Problems
- Using Inappropriate Language
- Name-Calling
Disruptive Problems
- Disrupting Group Time
- Running Aimlessly Around the Classroom
- Shouting in the Classroom
- Dropping Objects to Create Noise
Inappropriate Expression
- Excessive Crying
- Pouting
- Whining
Positive and supportive environments for learning
Building strong parent/carer-child relationships
Discipline techniques are most effective when children feel cared for and know that their needs will be met.
Strategies for building skills and strengthening desired behaviour
Safe Hands, Safe Feet: A child should always feel safe at the Centre and act in a safe manner. This includes ensuring that children's bodies are safe; feelings are safe; thoughts, ideas and words are safe and the work they do and materials used to do it are safe.
Praise/Positive Reinforcement: The best strategy for guiding a child's behavior is to offer positive statements, a gentle touch or hug whenever possible before and after negative situations. Children seek approval from their caregivers and obtain a sense of pride and self-worth when positive behaviors and interactions are noticed and responded to.
Redirection: The first step in managing the behavior of a child is to ask yourself "Why is the child behaving in this way?”. Answering this may lead to a favorable solution for all. For instance, a child's inappropriate behavior may be due to:
- Boredom – examine the program areas available; is there something that meets their individual needs?
- Frustration – is the curriculum too challenging? Are they arguing too much with a friend? Look for an alternative activity that will meet the child's immediate needs: perhaps a quiet activity with a teacher or different friend. Alternatively, aid the process of the child telling their friend why they are upset. (Remember, children know the phrase "use your words”, but often need assistance in finding the words to say).
Set clear limits and consequences: If the child's behavior is continuing or escalating it is necessary to let them know what the end result will be. Indicate what you will do to help them if they cannot manage their own behavior. For example:
- You will redirect them from the present area
- You will find an alternate activity for them if they can't
This is reinforced:
- In a positive, consistent and caring manner
- As soon as possible after the behavior has occurred
- As a way to assist the child to learn safe behaviors
- To ensure the safety of the children and teachers
- To protect the rights of others
- To protect the building and equipment